Its all about CommunicationS
Conversation with Renee before I left for work yesterday morning: -
Renee: Mami, you going to work ah?
Mami: Ya lor..
Renee: Mami, don't go la, oin-oin with me la (she was still rolling in bed)
Mami: Cannot la darling, have to work, I see you later ok (kiss her over and over)
Renee: Ok, goodbye mami, i see you at 4 o'clock ok (walked me down to the car)
At night, while I was preparing to go meet up with A.Soo Kee and attend Arthur Kung-Kung's birthday: -
Renee: Mami, you go where?
Mami: I am going for a party and dinner
Renee: Mami, you bring me ah?
Mami: No Renee, it is an adult reception, only for big people, small kids cannot go (flat mouth)
Renee: What time you come back?
Mami: (Pointed at my watch) When the small needle reach here - 11pm
Renee: (walked us down to the car again, waived goodbye, then - "Bye-Bye Mami, bye-bye Babee, I see you ok..muakkk-muakkk"
Eversince you started talking and understanding, ah Ku told me not to lie to you, wherever we were going we would tell you and make sure you smile and acknowledge before we leave. He taught me to keep my promisses to you, never lie, never hide you and leave quietly and to be back at stipulated times. Now, i find it so easy to leave you whenever, i just have to tell, pat and kiss...
Renee: Mami, you going to work ah?
Mami: Ya lor..
Renee: Mami, don't go la, oin-oin with me la (she was still rolling in bed)
Mami: Cannot la darling, have to work, I see you later ok (kiss her over and over)
Renee: Ok, goodbye mami, i see you at 4 o'clock ok (walked me down to the car)
At night, while I was preparing to go meet up with A.Soo Kee and attend Arthur Kung-Kung's birthday: -
Renee: Mami, you go where?
Mami: I am going for a party and dinner
Renee: Mami, you bring me ah?
Mami: No Renee, it is an adult reception, only for big people, small kids cannot go (flat mouth)
Renee: What time you come back?
Mami: (Pointed at my watch) When the small needle reach here - 11pm
Renee: (walked us down to the car again, waived goodbye, then - "Bye-Bye Mami, bye-bye Babee, I see you ok..muakkk-muakkk"
Eversince you started talking and understanding, ah Ku told me not to lie to you, wherever we were going we would tell you and make sure you smile and acknowledge before we leave. He taught me to keep my promisses to you, never lie, never hide you and leave quietly and to be back at stipulated times. Now, i find it so easy to leave you whenever, i just have to tell, pat and kiss...
posted by VP at 10:08 AM
5 Comments:
the lovable girl....
and hey y arthur KUNG KUNG ahh???
hey..same here, never lie to kids where we go!
Renee such a understanding girl hor!
I am sure Renee will grow up to be your best friend!
Its true, as parents we have to be as truthful to the kid as possible. They will do what we do, and not what we say. Our actions are always a learning point for them.
Gee, Renee really understood what u explained to her? *clap clap clap* My Destinee will always want to follow us whenever we dressed up and we've to 'negotiate' with her when we go out.
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